Rage, Rage Against…Myself
Anger can be intensely damaging to relationships. Cully Perlman shares his account of battling with his own internal rage and its effects within marriage. ______ I’m not one for therapy. I don’t...
View ArticleWhy Angry White Men is Worth Your Time
Michael Kimmel thinks that the justifiable decline of hegemonic masculinity is driving the issues and anxieties of America’s angry white men – and he might just be right. — As a society, when we talk...
View Article“Be A Man!” The War Cry, The Tragedy.
In this excerpt from his new book, The Remade Parent, author Brett Hetherington talks about the typical cold, distant father. And their impressionable children. [Excerpt from The Remade Parent,...
View ArticleHow to Love an Angry Man: Understanding and Helping Your Partner
Jed Diamond, PhD shares how to understand the fear and hurt beneath a man’s anger and help him move through all the feelings on the way to love. – We all get angry at times. When we feel we’re...
View ArticleThe Anger-Addled Brain
Does anger dependence lead to memory loss? ––– “My venerable lord,” replied Agamemnon King of Men, “the account of my blind folly that you have given us is wholly true. Blinded I was—I do not deny it...
View ArticleIt Was the Olden Time, It Was the New York Times
View image | gettyimages.com Jessica Lahitou on what a modern man is, and the difference between angry men and angry women. ____ Talk about a conversation starter. Any time my mom – not on Facebook,...
View ArticleHow Can We Keep Angry Men from Becoming Monsters?
Another mass shooting in the US and Angry Men are at the forefront again. Why? — There has been another shooting in the good ole US of A. Another monster, this time with his mate, shooting up...
View ArticleHow to Help an Angry Man and Stop the Fights That Harm Your Marriage
Embed from Getty Images — I’ve been helping men and the women who love them for more than 40 years. When I ask men what’s most important to them in their relationships, I hear many variations on a...
View ArticleToday Sucks and I can Prove It!
Embed from Getty Images — Let me set this up with a situation I have accomplished in my life more than once. I wake-up and dive for my cell phone only to find that my service is shut off. I next check...
View ArticleThe Real Causes of the Las Vegas Massacre Few are Willing to Accept
Embed from Getty Images Once again, a man came prepared to kill and to die. And once again we argue with each other about why it happened and what we can do to prevent the next horrible event. We even...
View ArticleAnger … 3 Steps To Mastering The Art Of Pissed-Offery
Embed from Getty Images — As I see it, all emotions lead back to one of two sources – LOVE and FEAR. Both of which are essential for a man’s survival. In my personal journey of recovery and in my...
View ArticleWhy Are Men so Angry? The Answers May Surprise You
— Anger came and went in our house until I was 4 years old. Then it moved in and wouldn’t leave. We all get angry at times, often with the people who are closest to us. But when anger becomes chronic...
View ArticleWhy I Run: To Process My Anger
Today I felt frustrated, tired, sleep-deprived and stressed-out. I was angry at the world. I took my usual running route at the park at an unusually early time, when treads were crowded with other...
View ArticleLet’s Take a Look at Angry Men
— A lot of people peg me as a gentle bloke. A man that gets by his day with very little stress, confusion, and anger. A man that doesn’t go off the rails in temper at the slightest hint of a head-on...
View ArticleMy ‘Twin Brother’: Lessons in Healing and Forgiveness
— As a child, I remember being so angry almost all the time. I had this ball of fire in my gut that wouldn’t go away. Naively, I believed that anger was far better than being afraid. My anger defined...
View ArticleConnecting with Non-Damaging Aggressiveness
— Anger is one of the few emotions considered socially acceptable for men to express. It also “appears” to be the emotion that gets men into the most trouble as it can lead to aggression. I say...
View ArticleStanding in the Shadows of Love
— Without love we have chaos in our lives and in the midst of chaos we have rage, ecstasy and feelings of isolation. My father was always standing in the shadows of love, so afraid of being close to a...
View ArticleHow to Love an Angry Man
We all get angry at times. When we feel we’re threatened we react with anger. Sometimes the anger is explosive. At other times it comes across in cold silences. Sometimes anger is linked to depression...
View ArticleWhy Are Men So Angry?
— The comedian Kumail Nanjiani was on Ellen recently talking about the plot of his latest movie “Stuber.” In discussing the dynamic between the two main characters of the movie (who have opposing views...
View ArticleThe Hidden Reason Men Get Angry at the One We Love the Most
One of the questions I hear over and over again is “Why is my husband so mean to me?” I’ve also written about this in an article “Why Are Men So Angry?” Of course, we all get angry at times and...
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